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| The Switching Hour: Kids of Divorce Say Good-bye Again | 
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Sales Rank: 98045
Category: Book
Author: Evon O. Flesberg
Publisher: Abingdon Press
Studio: Abingdon Press
Manufacturer: Abingdon Press
Label: Abingdon Press
Languages: English (Original Language), English (Unknown), English (Published)
Media: Hardcover
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 128
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.6
Dimensions (in): 8.2 x 5.6 x 0.7
ISBN: 0687649765
Dewey Decimal Number: 306.874
EAN: 9780687649761
ASIN: 0687649765
Publication Date: January 1, 2008
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"In this readable and practical book, Dr. Flesberg addresses the needs of approximately 18-20 million children under age 18 who face parental divorce with lifestyle changes in the liminal place known as the "switching hour." The "switching hour" is Flesberg's term for the psychological, physical, and spiritual space between the respective homes of divorced parents measured by clock time as well as the context and lifestyle in which these children seek to balance the different ways of being that these homes represent. The book invites parents, grandparents, other relatives, and caregivers to enter responsibly into the world of the children of divorce. "Chapters 1-7 begin with a child's letter. These letters plus intermingled vignettes lead the reader to connect with the soul and angst of each child. For Dr. Flesberg this connection is a prerequisite to the reader's responding redemptively to these children of divorce. Each chapter illustrates and defines the needs of children of divorce and then offers guidelines for appropriate response. A suggested reading list is included in the final chapter. This is useful for personal or group reflection. "Her use of the children's narratives is diverse and compelling. Seminal themes and commentary are clinically accurate and creatively presented. The caring guidelines for response are well thought out and useable. The book is theologically sound, interfaith sensitive and inclusive, and gracious to the reader. This reader was touched profoundly by the uniqueness yet commonality of the children's stories. The Switching Hour offers hope and suggestions to those who seek to care responsibly and effectively for children of divorce." James W. Pruett, Ph.D.; D.Min.; LMFT; LPC; CFBPPC
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The Switching Hour June 2, 2008
Absolutely superb. This is on the true cutting edge of the effects of custody exchanges on children.
A Valuable Perspective on a Painful Time April 23, 2008
As a marriage and family therapist for forty years I have heard the switching hour event described over and over from the point of view of divorced or divorcing parents. Flesberg's book describes it from the child's point of view. This allowed me to feel and understand the pain of divorce from a different and more striking perspective--one that both therapists and toubled families need to know more about. Flesberg's section on what can be done to reduce the child's stress during the switching hour is particularly helpful.
long overdue March 24, 2008
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
Dr. Flesberg has produced a book which meets the needs of working professionals, parents, and parents who are working professionals! It is well written and researched. I have already begun using this in the parish. I heartily recommend this book to anyone who loves kids, loves parents, or both.
The Rev. Lewis A. Groce
Trinity Church
Tullahoma TN
An important and accessible contribution March 4, 2008
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
Dr Flesberg has condensed many years of pastoral experience and academic research into this small, practical, accessibly written book which can be confidently placed in the hands of busy parents, pastors, and anyone else who cares about children. A skilled teacher, she guides the reader into empathetic understanding of the experience of children of divorced parents, and provides clear, wise suggestions for how to help. I have already recommended The Switching Hour to a number of friends and relatives, and will continue to do so.
The Switching Hour February 29, 2008
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
I found The Switching Hour to be very informative concerning the different issues that children face after their parents divorce. I particularly liked the blessings for the children on page 100 and 101. We have begun using them as we see our grandchildren go with their biological father for visits. I would recommend this book to anyone needing advise in dealing with divorce.
Rick Otey
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